Friday, January 9, 2009

Ages of Enlightenment

It's interesting to see how our perspectives change as we get older, primarily our view of what's considered old and young. As a young child, we think everyone who's over 20 is elderly. Most teenagers are eager to add years onto their young life so they will be taken more seriously by adults, so they can move out of the house, so they can have the perks that come with adulthood, etc. Then as we move through our adult years, the concept of "middle age" or "old" tend to glide farther into the higher numbers. Having recently turned 40, I've been pondering how my friends and I might appear to others. When I'm out somewhere with my friends, laughing and having a grand old time, it's quite possible that teenagers who see us think that we're just a group of "old folks". It doesn't matter what they think; I just find it humorous because there are times when I still feel like I'm 15 years old, and that certainly colors my perspective. Sometimes it actually feels like my group of friends is just a bunch of goofy, energetic kids who just happen to look older on the outside. Maybe keeping that youthful internal core is the true secret to staying young.

2 comments:

Marilyn Brant said...

Ha. Yeah. Sometimes when I'm with my friends at a coffee house or restaurant, I feel just like how I should've felt in junior high (if I were really enjoying myself instead of merely pretending to :). In a lot of ways, I feel younger now than I did then--although I'm pretty sure I look my age!

Anonymous said...

Isn't it also nice that as we have gotten older, the age range of our friends has expanded? Our cirlces have friends from the 20-somethings to 60 and up. And I don't feel like I've ever really aged (okay, except the hairline), just gotten more comfortable in my own skin.
-Steve Strode